Information for family & friends

You can be a good support to someone that has experienced sexual violence if you:

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• Listen!

• Dont push - allow them to remain in control of what they share with you and how.

• Reassure them that you wont tell anyone else (unless a child is at risk of harm)

• Be patient

• Accept and dont judge

• Learn about the effects of sexual violence and ways of coping with these.

• Ask how you can help or be supportive.

• Avoid feeling responsible or trying to fix things.

• Avoid asking intrusive questions about the abuse.

• Look after yourself too!